Wednesday, May 21, 2014

Priya 2-3 months


- started sucking on her hands to the point where she gags herself
- little giggles at 11 weeks
- lazy during tummy time and lays down
- mesmerized by the TV screen and stares at it when it's on
- whines when she gets left in a room alone
- "dodges" binky by turning her head back and forth and even grabs it with her hand or blocks her mouth with her hand
- such a daddy's girl. Always smiles at him and loves sitting on his lap and he always has to put her to bed at night
- rolled over from tummy to back at 12 weeks
- talks all the time and loves to be talked to
- happiest when being held sitting up facing out. No longer likes to be held laying down
- fights going to sleep so bad!
- drooling and blowing bubbles
- back of the throat gurgle noise is her favorite noise to make and to hear, she giggles every time
- still eating every 3 hrs and growing so fast!
- mom went back to work and she takes a bottle no problem
- still sleeping in bassinet next to moms bed 
- got sick with a fever a few times this month
- loves baths with her brother and has started splashing/kicking on purpose
- can wiggle out of any swaddle now
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10 week dr. Appointment















Monday, April 28, 2014

Priya 1-2 months


- sleeping a 6 hr shift then 3 hrs every feeding after that
- flails one arm in the air when she is flustered or about to cry
- blessed on April 27th, 2014 by her dad at almost 8 weeks old
- started smiling at 6 1/2 weeks
- cooing a lot
- hair is starting to grow in -still looks blonde
- grown out of newborn jammies at 6 weeks because of her long limbs.
- fitting into 0-3 month clothes at 7 weeks because of length
- went to Florida with mom at 5 weeks old to watch aunt Libby dance
- got her passport picture taken at 6 weeks
- sleeping less during the day and starting to like her swing finally 
- not a big fan of headbands and does a little whimper if it falls on her eyes/face
- prefers to have her head turned to the right shoulder
- so attentive and alert
- started blowing bubbles and loves being talked to
- 10 lbs 1oz at 2 month appt (20th percentile)
- 24 inches long (85th percentile)
- laughed a few times and is so smiley especially when you do raspberries with your lips.
- has a loud voice and cries super loud ( louder than we remember Bradley ever was)
- sticks her tongue in and out all day long
- spits out binky with force when she doesn't want it
- keeps a concerned face with scrunched eyebrows
















Thursday, April 24, 2014

Priya 0-1 month


- cries a lot. Mom and dad were worried you were colicky.
- wanted to be held all the time
- longest limbs. We joked about your arms because they could reach over your head. 
- loved sticking out your tongue
- long skinny feet
- ate evey 3 hrs on the dot
- has a scowl look on her face almost constantly
- sucks in her bottom lip when sleeping
- doesn't like the swing
- very alert for a newborn
- blue blue eyes
- had a strong neck at only a week old was trying to hold head up.
- loved her hands by her face. Would grip your thumbs and bring her hands to her jaw and squeeze and suck her binky really hard















Saturday, April 19, 2014

Priya Birth Story

Monday march 4th I went in to my 39 week doctors appointment. Dr. Huish asked me how I felt about waiting until things happened naturally versus induction. I told him I would gladly be induced. I was determined not to go past my due date. This baby was bigger than Bradley and I felt bigger and was ready to have my body back. With that being said, I assumed since he had me schedule a 40 week appointment for the following week that an induction would be scheduled somewhere near my due date. I left to kaseys to help babysit after my appointment and recieved a phone call around noon. 
"Hi, this is ???? from Banner Gateway hospital calling to inform you your doctor has scheduled an induction tomorrow morning at 9."

"Uh ok."

I was in shock. It's a completely indescribable feeling knowing I would for sure be having this baby girl starting tomorrow morning at 9. The suspense was gone. The nerves and excitement hit. 
I called Landon who was currently in his final week of busy season. His client was filing march 9th (my due date) and he was in NO hurry to have a baby during the busiest week of his job. However, I agree with Ashton who put it simply
'Anyone who does not have a skull grinding into their pelvis does not get an opinion.'
I wanted to have this baby girl. He told me to cancel the induction or ask for one later in the week. The hospital was full. It was either keep the scheduled induction for 9am or wait until the following week. In my mind, Landon did not comprehend the discomfort, anxiety and strong desire I had to have this baby as soon as possible. 
In Landon's mind, I did not comprehend the magnitude of the stress at work, the  obligations he felt to his coworkers, and the weight of the responsibilities  during this one important week.

We were at odds with each other. My hormones drew me to tears and I was determined I would get my way. Landon wanted me to wait and let it happen naturally, I wanted to have the baby that morning. Landon eventually proved yet again that he is the better person and told me he loves me and wants me to be happy. I didn't have to cancel the induction.

Turns out we both got our wishes.

I had been feeling crampy all day after my doctors appointment. Around 11 pm that night, I was having contractions. (This was not surprising as I had been having contractions at night for weeks). Landon went to bed and I tried to relax. After about 2 hrs of walking around the house, kneeling over the couch and doing everything to be tough, I called my parents and told them that baby girl was not waiting until 9. They said they'd be over to sleep at our house with Bradley so we could go to the hospital. I woke up Landon, told him what I had been through and we headed in. 
I was put in triage before being actually admitted. The nurse said she wanted to monitor my contractions for a while. Of course they slowed down when I got there. But the strength of them was awful. I have never been in so much pain during those 30-60 second contractions. Every 7 minutes. It wasn't good enough. One hour passed. Another hour passed. I wasn't "progressing fast enough". But I knew this was labor. They most likely would have sent me home but because I had an appointment to be induced at 9 that morning they kept me in triage. Thank goodness I didn't cancel that appointment.
2:00 am - arrived at the hospital and put in triage
4:00am- nurse did me a 'favor' and admitted me
At that point I couldn't breathe during the contractions and they were getting closer and closer together. The nurses didn't seem to be in any hurry getting my IV in and while waiting a strongn contraction broke my water. I told the nurse my water broke as the pressure as I was laying down was so strong it was like a super soaker shot out and drenched my feet. That woke her up from her nonchalant behavior messing with the printer on the machine in front of her. She called the anesthesiologist. I was at an 8 and in a LOT of pain. I finally got my epidural in but at that point the anesthesiologist said he hoped the medicine would catch up because I was already so far along. I called my mom and sister and told them it was go time and I was at a 9. Doc huish came in and prep'd me. He said I was ready. I pushed and he told me to stop. Kasey ran in. I pushed again and Priya was here. Piece of cake. My mom missed it because apparently the 4 minute drive from our house to the hospital wasn't short enough! Ha. 

She was blonde. Whaaat? Are you sure this was my baby? Bradley was a dark hairy monkey baby and this little girl was the complete opposite. Light hair, eyelashes, pink fair skin. Perfect in every way.  But not what I expected. An Indian name for a fair skin blonde baby? Yes. She was still 'the beloved' little girl we had been so anxiously awaiting! Our little Priya was a full pound bigger than Bradley. 

A little piece of heaven had entered the room and everyone there felt it. She was cleaned and poked and stretched and checked for what felt like an eternity. I wanted to hold her. Eventually I asked and she was brought to me so I could hold her and see her. 

Becoming a mother for the second time was amazing because despite some uncertainty about how my heart would have room to love another, my understanding of love grew tremendously and I knew how obsessed and in love with this new baby girl I would become.






Monday, February 3, 2014

18-24 months



- in the last few months has cycled through being obsessed with first lion king, then Cars, then Peter Pan, then Nemo, then Mulan and the land before time. And when I say obsessed I mean he will watch the movie and as soon as it's over says 'again?'. The kid would watch movies/TV all day long if I let him.
- does a look away/eye roll and we all laugh so hard 
- loves reading books but usually just likes to turn the pages quickly and move on to the next book.
- best friends and worst enemies with Polly
- loves putting anything in to cracks or shoving them behind something
- loves cars, 
- possessive of mom's things like the diaper bag, phone, the remote control... They are Moms and no one else not even dad can hold them.
- loves rolling balls off the edges of things
- still has binky and mr frog. Supposed to be only when in his crib, but mom can be a push over at times
- has added some new vocabulary: alligator, cooper, cole, Blake, nammy, papa's house, treat, sucker, calls a slide a 'weee' , calls Polly 'Bubby', says oh nooo, daddy get you, bye bye, more, apple, baby, milk usually followed by water, bath, go dog go, bicycle, truck, tree, big, circle, triangle, yellow, and much more... We are shocked when he suddenly says news things every day.
- throws everything! Loves rocks and cars.
- doesn't quite grasp the whole "baby sister" concept but points to his tummy and moms tummy when asked where she is.
- picky eater and makes a "cuck" gross out sound when we try to get him to try something 
- does really well in nursery and doesn't cry at all anymore. The first 6 weeks were tough
- has mastered the fake whine/cry
- takes one 2 hr nap and has been staying up later (8-8:30) at night. 
- says "yay big boy" after he throws mr and binky into his crib
- turns off the lights for bedtime
- obsessed with taking "bass" (baths) but HATES soap, bubbles or water on his head. He usually flails his arms and legs trying to soak mom/dad as much as possible when he has to get washed.
- loves to be held rather than walk by himself.
- loves playing with the choo choo at Barnes and Noble
- folds his arms for prayers but doesn't yet help us say them